"While your up there I don't want you going to any strip clubs" " Honey it's Napa Valley, I don't even think there are strip clubs in wine country" "Well I'm sure if there is Phil will sniff one out, and just think the poor girl that is up there half naked and dry humping the F***ing stage thats somebody's daughter up there."- The Hangover
Stripping is viewed differently by people. Some people, like the lady in The Hangover, see strip clubs as dirty places and the girls are dirty woman that are putting sham on their families. Others see strip clubs as a fun place to go with your buddies for a bachelor party and just every once and a while. Some may go to a club on a regular basses to relive stress and watch beautiful woman. No matter witch way you look at a strip club or a stripper there are goods and bad's and some truths and some false to each opinion.
Woman seem to be more anti-strip club than men. They view them as dark places were perverted men go to gouache at naked woman. Many woman say that the girls the work at the club are "victims" and "being degraded by men."(Yahoo) Men objectify woman when they are in these venerable positions. Woman are not objects and the is why many woman sympathies with the girls that strip. It is not only the men that woman don't like about strip clubs they also don't like the woman that work at them. The main misconception about strippers is a girl who had a horrible child hood and has bad self-esteem and the only way she can feel good about herself is if she is reveling her to herself. Woman also hate the idea of their sugnifigent others going to these clubs. The idea of their husbends not getting there plesere form them is enough to make these woman crazy, and judge what they don't know anything about.(Yahoo)
The other side to the stripping against is the pro side. Many people see stripping as a form of great entertainment. A strip bar is a great place to go with friends to have some harmless fun for a birthday or a bachelor party. "These woman are making good money and are making the choice to work there" (Yahoo) There are many reasons for going to a Gentlemen's club but, the number one reason men go to strip clubs is because there's a 100% chance they will see a naked women. Men love women's bodies and no straight man would deny it.(AskMen) At cubs the more they see, the better. The don't need to ask, beg, or pay (except at the door and donations if they want). It helps take the stress off men to see these beautiful woman. Men often fantasize about women, at a Gentlemen's club they can see beautiful women and have secret affair with no strings attached. (AskMen) Just look, no touch. "Though most men accept the fact that they don't have a Barbie look-alike as a partner, they can still dream. By seeing women of equivalent beauty that are completely nude and seemingly vulnerable (even though most strippers are in complete control of what they do), going to a strip joint allows them to get closer to that fantasy."(AskMen)
In general men are the mane attendance to strip clubs but women also will attend male strip clubs and get strippers for a party like a bachelorette party. All in all there are two sides to every story, you can decide what you think.
Works Cited
Laredo, Mike. "Why Are so Many Women against Strip Clubs? - Yahoo! Answers NZ." Yahoo! Answers - Ask Questions & Get Answers On Any Topic! Yahoo, 2010. Web. 13 Oct. 2011. <http://nz.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100810014046AAXylYz>.
"Why Do Men Love Strip Clubs?" AskMen. Pythian Remite DBA, 1996. Web. 2011. <http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa/vanessa7.html>.
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